Relational Life Training
with Terry Real

Seminar code: REA-Y40

Terrence Real Terrence Real, MSW, LICSW
1st module: Monday, May 14, and
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
2nd module: Monday, November 12, and
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
Time: 9:00 am to 4:30 pm (each day)
Location: Koffler House/Multi-Faith Centre,
University of Toronto
569 Spadina Avenue, Toronto
(Click here for directions.)
Fee: $1,100 (+ HST)
Payable in four installments


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Back by popular demand and in response to requests for a skills-and-practice-focused follow-up to his previous workshop, Terry Real returns with an extended training in Relational Life Therapy™. Participants of Terry’s workshop last November were struck by the power and effectiveness of RLT in action with challenging couples. RLT is unique in its practical and action-oriented approach towards addressing how men, women, and relationships have changed from the 20th century to the 21st and how to help couples proactively create the relationship they want.

Over 2 two-day trainings, Terry will guide you through a combination of lecture, presentation, discussion, role plays, large group work, and small group exercises, in order to ground theory in practice. Please note that class size will be limited to facilitate more in-depth interaction.

You will have a chance to observe and then practise the essential techniques of RLT. These include use of the Relational Grid™ to diagnose and discuss the present dynamic between partners, how to gain leverage over partners who exhibit grandiosity, working with shame, how to "take sides" and skillfully confront difficult truths in order to support positive change, and how to use the existing relationship to dramatically transform character. The focus is on the "hands-on nuts and bolts" of RLT.

This training has been designed for the helping professional to achieve an intermediate level of competency in the clinical practice of RLT.

Please email angela(at)leadingedgeseminars(dot)org for a registration form, and to submit payment.

You will learn —

  • How to work with challenging couples using RLT
  • The critical success factors in using RLT
  • How to effectively gather data, diagnose, find leverage, work with grandiosity, and get to a therapeutic contract using the Relational Life Model™
  • What RLT looks like in action, through hands-on, contained practice with other participants

How to Register

Please note that online registration is not available for this course.

Click here for payment options and to download a registration form.


About the Presenter

Terrence Real, MSW, LICSW, is the New York Times best-selling author of I Don’t Want to Talk About It and How Can I Get Through to You? His most recent book is The New Rules of Marriage. A family therapist and teacher for over 20 years, Terry is a senior faculty member of the Family Institute of Cambridge in Massachusetts, and a former Clinical Fellow of the Meadows Institute in Arizona. In 2002, he founded the Relational Life Institute to help women and men find true connection and satisfaction. His work has been featured on "20/20" and "Oprah". He is the "relationship and family expert" for "Good Morning America" and "ABC News". Visit www.terryreal.com for more information.